
Early on, one yearns for it ~
The chance to be alone,
Responsible
For only oneself.
Then, when opportunities arise
Enjoyment of separation?
Near impossible!
The invisible ties?
They bind.
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Slowly,
O’er years
A distance, comfortable, grows wider.
‘Out of sight,’ somewhat acceptable,
For a little while, at least.
But as a day wears on,
Heartstrings tug.
And reunion comforts, Strengthening the ties.
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Later,
Times apart expand
Enfolding days or even weeks.
But a sense of right is fragile
‘Til communion comes again,
The common threads more tightly knit, but subtly drape and flow.
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Ultimately,
Success.
Independence.
Directions deviate.
Occasional convergence, is the norm
And the brief little whiles seem right.
Days spent together bring joy.
Those invisible ties woven into a loving comfort-cloth,
Growing ever more precious over time.
The joy of parenthood and then the “empty nest.” Watching them grow, fail, succeed then become meaningful contributors to society. Spending quality time…..reminiscing…..bittersweet. A lovely piece!
At this stage of my life, this is closer to the story of my marriage.